Nov 172008

All things only exist by comparison. Think about it, what would be hot if there was no cold, good if there was no bad, right without left, it is all relative.

Anything and everything you experience just “is” until you compare it to something else. Until something is compared there is no relationship. It is personal interpretation and belief systems that cause us each to view the same exact situation differently.

A great example of this many of you may have experienced before in a relationship. You ask you partner if anything is wrong and they say “no, things are great,” but their tone isn’t convincing enough for you. Now your interpretation is something is clearly wrong, while they truly do feel great. Both of you heard the same words, but one interpretation was different than the other.

Once you can accept this law it will allow you to appreciate the experiences you have throughout your business life while dealing with all different types of people. When something unsavory happens in life just think about what possible break through may be just around the bend. Definitely easier said than done, but after practice it can become second nature.

No two people are the same, and neither is the way situations are interpreted. So instead of “making things happen,” just let them happen and enjoy your experiences.

Until next time, have a wonderful day!

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Nov 032008

Do you have the “IT?” Do you even know what “IT” is for you?

Well I can tell you that “IT” is different for each and every person. “It” has a relation to the acquisition of all your goals, hopes, and dreams. So first thing is first, you must have an idea of your goals, hopes, and dreams!

Getting into this thought process is absolutely imperative for getting “IT.” You can read dozens of books that will explain how to harness the power of you mind in all different fashions. Creating your vision is you first objective. The most powerful “vision”, “why”, “goal”, however you would like to define it should bring up strong emotions. Emotions of desire and determination, it may even make you realize that you are just sick and tired of being sick and tired, but whatever the emotion is it should drive you.

Once your goal is clearly defined now it is time to create the game plan of what needs to get done and what needs to change in your life in order to accomplish it. Here is where the real search for “IT” begins. “If you do what you’ve always done, you will get what you’ve always gotten.”- Anthony Robbins. So clearly there must be changes made in your daily activities.

Now the rubber meets the road. You have determined what you goals are, you have created the game plan to get you there, and it is all down on paper (this is a must!). This is where you are able to identify how “IT” is going to assist you in achieving all you desire. On your journey there will be obstacles, let downs, failures, road blocks, and other various setbacks, but “IT” is what allows you to persist. “IT” becomes internalized and creates such a driving force in you that you may quit dozens of times, but “IT” empowers you to start one more time than you quit.

I define “IT” as the fuel that takes gets where you need to go. It is up to you to determine what vehicle is going to get you there.

Good luck and enjoy the ride “IT” takes you on.

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