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The Ultimate Rapport Formula- Part 2

7 Keys of Respect

The next factor in creating rapport is Respect. Respect has more to do with who you are and what you can provide whereas the previous keys for Trust had more to with who you are connecting with and how to connect with them!

1) Clarity (why your company/product/you?)

Never forget that people are always tuned into their favorite radio station WiiFM (What’s In It For Me?).

2) Certainty (Value > time/money requested)
Certainty = what you have to offer is 10x’s more valuable than what they are requesting! Clarity + Certainty =Conviction!!

3) Control (Who is Directing/the Focus/ In Charge?)
Cardinal Rule- Who ever is asking the questions is in control! Remember every conversation is a negotiation.

4) Challenge (Re-framing Objections/ Beliefs)
People are looking for leadership. Overcoming objections is more about giving your clients/prospects confidence that you believe in yourself and your product than about just trying to get a sale!

5) Stories (Credibility through Stories of Success)
This is the second time I mentioned stories. Bottom line is Facts-Tell, Stories-Sell!

6) Scarcity (You/ Your Opportunity/ & Your Product is in Demand)
Ever try selling sand to the beach, or a retirement account to a teen! Enough said!

7) Sincerity (Your intention)
I end with the most important element and I cannot stress this enough! Above all else if you are not in the market to provide value first and you do not have sincere intentions to help other… then your wasting your time.

Next time you talk to a person; picture a mental check list that each of us have:

  • Are we more alike than we are different?
  • Do they have my best interests at heart?
  • Can they add tremendous value to my life?

If you can answer yes to all three of these questions, then you will have an alliance for life!

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A new decade has begun and millions of dollars are to be made this coming year. The beginning of the year is an extremely profitable time for many businesses. Are you in position to capitalize?

Resolutions are being made, budgets are being set, people have a new sense of focus; unfortunately this is only a short lived influx of business for most industries. By now you have already set up your goals, as well as action plans on attaining them, and I am sure networking your business is on the horizon.

There are many, many events going on everyday all over the country, but which acronym do you choose? FNI, BNI, NPI, REN, CABA, NY4S, TWBA, TBREIA, PRO, TBTF, GTAR, the list goes on and on. There are Chambers of Commerce, Rotary’s, Kiwanis, and dozens of other professional organizations all over the place.

You ask yourself, what events are going to be the best use of my time? Do I go to a seat specific event or one open to my competition too? Do I pay to be apart to be a part of an organization or should I find free events? Should if find something targeted to my industry or just hit the masses? Are evening mixer events the best or do professional sit down meetings work better?

How do I network my business effectively when there are all these variables?!?

All necessary questions, each with an answer personal to you and your business.

Here are 5 tips in getting them answered:

1. The acronym, the organization, none of that matters. The only thing that matters are the people you meet. Do you like these people? Are they the type of people you want to associate with? Can you see yourself building relationships? Remember you are the cumulative amount of the 5 people you spend the most time with so choose your associations wisely.

2. Attending events that are open to all or just one person per industry is going to be your call. I personally rather attend an open meeting. You may want to meet someone in a specific industry and if you are at a one person per industry group what happens if you don’t care for person who fills that seat? I would rather meet a variety of people, build relationships with those I choose, and learn from my competition if the opportunity arises.

3. There are lots of events that are free out there, and many others that will cost you a few dollars. What you need to determine is: How many sales will I need to make to earn this investment back? What is my expected commitment? What am I really getting for my money? To be required to pay hundreds of dollars to someone just to have the opportunity to meet people I feel is a little self serving. Business networking is about helping others achieve their goals with minimal expense. If the cost to join a group is more than the groups cost to run itself it may not be the best place for you. Now if you are targeting a much higher end prospect, then there may certainly be some investment required. Again this is all your preference.

4. Going to traditional sit down business networking events, or after hour mixers all really depends on your personality and objective. If you do better in a crowd then a mixer will be the best place for you. Many people feel more comfortable in a controlled environment when they can see and hear what everyone does and pick and choose who specifically they want to meet.

5. Attending expos and trainings are phenomenal places to network. They will have a small cost to them, but you will be getting your return on investment with simply the information you receive. You will have the opportunity to learn about a specific topic which should help you further yourself in your business, and best of all you will be surrounded by other like minded people who you will have an immediate rapport with just for the fact that like minded people can connect easier with people who are like them.

Business networking is more important than ever before. The one key that runs true for all of these events and choices you make is you must be willing to build relationships. Remember not all relationships will lead to business immediately, but in the long run you and your business will be in a better place because of the friendships you have developed.

Happy networking to you in this wonderful 2010!

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If you have no desired destination any old place will do. Setting up your goals and defining your “Why” is what makes it easier to get through trials and tribulations when they arise.

Having a positive attitude, and being optimistic does not keep obstacles from coming up, but it does help whether the storm. Having a goal helps us work with the end in mind, and without one dooms us to observe our present circumstances and dwell on what is or is not happening.

I attribute my daily success to believing it is going to be a successful day. It is sometimes difficult to believe when you think about your day and don’t even want to get out of bed to start it, but that is where your goals come in. Since my personal goals have been defined I have also written out an in detail description to what a “perfect” day looks like to me it is easier to focus on what good is going to happen. Now every day does not pan out “perfectly,” but I know that the activities I go through throughout the day are getting me closer to experiencing it on a regular basis.

This unfortunately does not work for those of you out there who hate what you do and are unwilling to change your habit and behaviors. There are just too many people hell bent on defining insanity on a daily basis. It is a time of change, and you are no exception. Evolution is taking place and life is evolving faster than ever before. Adapt of be left behind.

Define your goals. Write them down. What does a perfect day look like to you? Both a work day and a play day, define them both. How much money will it take for you to do what you love? How much would it take for you not to have to work for anyone anymore? What does your perfect life look like?

The questions are everywhere, only you have the answers. Good luck!

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